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Reply to No Child Left Behind is a Crock of #$%^ in Current Events JoeUser Forums

To me, it seems like teachers are just teaching information that is only going to appear these tests. On top of the general lack of knowledge and information, there is no transference of this material from short term to long term memory...Students just memorize the information long enough to take a test. So...your child is going to school and learning how to have a great short term memory. What about life long knowledge? Shaun Ke

Can I get a witness? in Sex & Romance JoeUser Forums

It has been a while since I last wrote. I had so much negative crappola clogging up the works but a good flush fixed the problem. It has been an enlightening experience in self preservation, thats the only way I can say it. There are so many blogs about the "state of the world" such as politics, religion...all the mindboggling B.S that one cannot escape from an

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

little_whip,No squeazing going on here( I've stepped away from it), I suppose if taken in the context that you use, it could be seen as harmless adoration by him. And yes, she is using it to make a living . I was never affraid that he would have a relationship with her, the problem was that his hours and hours spent in this pursuit of this was encroaching on our time together and thus began to have an adverse effect on the intimacy of our relation

In Regards to : I need the opinions of ..... in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

I wrote an article a few days ago about a situation I was in and asked the users of JU for their oppinions. I had some that were insightful, some were agressively attacking and others insulting at best. But all responses were appreciated because they all helped in some way. Since no human is without frailties, I can safely say that most folks when faced with stre

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

little _whip, "being a jealous, snooping, suspicious, uptight bitch is not the way to do that" , umm...putting myself out there when I felt hurt and betrayed was hard to do. Telling me that I'm an uptight bitch was a little bit agressive and perhaps you could have said things with a tad less malice? anyhoo, thanks for your input just the same. I dont feel that I'm an uptight bitch at all. Just a very sensitive woman.</

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

Keo Lin,You know, of all of the responses, I think you may be closest to what is going on with him. He has made passing comments over the years that made no real sense to me until I read your post. This is exactly why I decided to talk about what happened, to get a look at how others would see it because I dont always see things as they are. I tend to be pesimistic rather than optimistic in some situations. Your post has helped me feel better so t

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

Kingbee, "i get the sense that your bf is trying to hustle the woman to whom he wrote the email--like trying to see if shell up the ante, etc. in that light, i dont see it as the equivalent of an affair per se. more like stuffing singles into a strippers panties, hoping shell reciprocate." \\ I had never thought of it that way kingbee but I can see what you are saying. Perhaps you are correct in this. Thanks fo

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

little_whip, "He probably didnt tell you about this because he knew your reaction would be as immature as it is." the issue isnt that he is masturbating here. please re read my post. the issue is that he is also writting to her.

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

I expected nothing less than this from you Peter. Thanks for not dissapointing me

Reply to I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

I'm not asking for people to say if I'm right or wrong in this, I just feel like the man stepped on me. it isnt "light hearted fun" to me. I feel used and lied to and taken for granted. I REALIZE that opinions will differ in this. I am not expecting a great revelation in this post guys! My life has changed because he choose to share his most intimate self with another woman. I erased two replys but I was not meaning to do that. just because he wa

I need the opinions of the women ( and men)of JoeUser.com in Dating JoeUser Forums

I found that my boyfriend of 5 years had written to another woman on the internet and this is what he wrote to her, I just need to know if anyone else thinks that this is tatamount to cheating on me. I believe it is but Joel doesnt think there is anything wrong with what he did. He wrote this to her: Just browsing on SC, haven't done that in a wh

Reply to The Chit Keeps Pilin' Higher and Higher in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Just curious as to why the comments have been deleted here? Someone say something that perhaps did'nt sit well?

Reply to Jugg-er..not in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Tonight, I took my rosey pink B cup and the rest of me , out of this situation. I told him that I was unhappy and that I needed more. It was so very hard for me to do and will continue to be hard for some months to be sure. I did have very little appreciation for myself but I also have to take responsiblity for giving him the power to do it. I mean, hey, I'm one of the neatest people I know <img src="../images/smiles/grim.gif" border=0 ALIGN="abs

Reply to Gay WHAT??? in Current Events JoeUser Forums

OK, I read all of the replies and did this get so far away from the original complaint or what? The title of the discussion was "Gay WHAT???" It is still so incredible that when one dicusses politics or religion(did I spell that right?), tempers flare. I have this to say about all of the above: Are any of us Dieties? Then if we are not, do we have the right to say who a person can love and wish to spend their lives with? The issue of Gay marriages

Reply to Real Female Role Models in Misc JoeUser Forums

Muggaz.... I've read the entire string on this one. WOW baby! Perception of one's self is nearly always askew from the truth. I have had some very emotionally trying times in my life and all of them were because of my misconception of myself, whether it was my body or my thought process. For instance, the guy in a night club wearing his best "leisure suit" and has taken a bath in his Hia-karate after shave, now he thinks he is the cats pajamas..

Reply to Jugg-er..not in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Hi Kingbee... You are absolutely correct in what you say. Joel will never be satisfied with just me and nothing I ever do to change my body will stop him from seeking other women. I've been with him for 5 years so coming to this realization hurts me deeply, to see that this probably wont work the way things are right now. The really sad part is that I believe with all of my heart that Joel will not miss me as long as he has the love of his life,

Reply to Jugg-er..not in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Thanks J for you encouragement . As a co dependant working on getting my head back on in the right position, I am begining to see that it will never matter to Joel what I look like, he will always be looking for something else. He will never really care enough about how I feel to change his behavior or try to see things from my point of view. I do deserve better and will have it someday, and I dont for one moment ,think that Joel will care one way

Reply to The Continued Saga...... in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Hi again Adalia, I took some extra time to read more of your articles this morning and now have some concerns. In one of them you mentioned that you and whatshisface were going to start a Ministry. In another one you mentioned that this whatshisface tossed a cat against the wall. In another, several actually, you tell all of us that he lies and cheats the taxpayers because the lazy S.O.B wont get a job. I dont know many Ministers that live like th

Reply to Something without fuck in it in Art JoeUser Forums

Umm Great poetry...yeah...thats the ticket..was so fucking glad to see something without that fucking word , fuck in it..fuckin A

Reply to The Continued Saga...... in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Adalia.. I find it hard to believe that you are still considering moving out there. And to what? A man who lies and makes others pay for his upkeep? How old are the two of you? I mean, are we talking about a young man that just hasnt made it yet? Or is he a mature man that has never made it and never will? He wants you to sell everything and go be with him. Ok, let's analyze that..You have shelter, food and friends where you are now. You can get

Reply to Why Men are the Weaker Sex in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Hiyaz Muggaz.. Sorry, couldnt resist responding to this one .. You said " And women are NEVER attracted to men who want to hand over their power in exchange for approval. " I know a few Dominatrixes that would totally disagree with that( In fact, know more than a few male submissives that would as well). And you said "2) Stop behaving as if she's in control because she controls whether or not you have sex. U

Reply to Are we all disposable? in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Thanks Zoo..I've read a lot of your stuff too..great..funny and insightful! thank you for sharing as well. ~Madd~ness~

Reply to Are we all disposable? in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

A date with Rosey once in a while is natural, but to prefer her to say...REAL SEX with another person, Yeah...I think that's a bad thing

Make up my mind! in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

If the media says it, it must be true A common misconception..or belief? Well lesse...Redbook, Glamour, ect.. confirm that the only beautiful woman is a bone thin size 0 with little to no bustline. Playboy, Penthouse, ect...confirm that the only beautiful woman is thin with boobs to hell and back. Legs, Legworld...ect...want us to believe that anywoma

Reply to I Can't Believe Him in Personal Relationships JoeUser Forums

Adalia Adalia Adalia...... I'll figure out what I'm going to do while I continually stall for time just to see if he'll get of his duff and really do something for himself. There's no chance for me to get down to Phoenix this weekend anyway ... Stop stalling already girlfriend! Why dont you just tell him the truth? Is he so fragile that telling him the truth will kill him? Why not just tell him this: " Look, I dont a