Well ironclad came back up and I played 2 games with my friends.
And 2 games within an hour....both times they stayed in sync and dsynced, it was AWSOME (sarcasm).
So im hoping that these issues get resolved soon, because unless were constantly talked to eachother over vent saying *I have 6 worlds and getting attacked by pink* there is no way to know if were still on the same game....its rather sad.
This has happened to another friend of mine, so is there any other way to avoid this? Should I restart the game every time before I do a match?