@Xer07, morpheas, skidi, Twilight, anyone else who will help-
We must band together, for though those who oppose us, and would make us feel that we are their inferiors, subordinates, and weak, we are strong, we have power over them, and we will break them.
Lo, (<-did I just say that?!?!) for though we walk through the gaze of our enemies, our rivals, our peers, we will be preserved, we will persevere, and we will be triumphant. Those with strength and power must protect those who cannot defend themselves, must pass on their legacy to those who could defend themselves but never knew it, and must always be present. For without them, injustice, anarchy, and destruction will reign throughout our worlds.
We have strength that our enemies have no knowledge of. If we are to strike, then STRIKE WE MUST!! If we are to strike, then WE MUST STRIKE WHEN OUR ENEMY LEAST SUSPECTS!! We must become close to our foes, our rivals, and we must make them trust us. For only then will they be utterly and completely vulnerable, and only then will their downfall be full.
I am not sure where all this warmongery comes from, but I will say that it is inspiring and motivational indeed 
The only enemy I face are my own insecurities and the fact that I'm overall spineless...
I'm willing to help you with whatever it is you're out to do, but
1. Don't expect anything great to come out of me in the "struggle"
2. Can't do anything until after my father leaves.
3. Nice inspirational speech, tho I think it's quoted, for one, and for two, I've already decided that we both should walk our own path in life... apart. Her and Hannah already have a plan for a future togetether: To run away to Sweden as soon as they can, and then... never mind, I won't say what they planned on doing for a living. Me, I'm just going to protect her as long as I can until she's replaced me, then I'll find my father, make my peace with him, and move to Sacremento.
Oh, and if your speech involved me seperating Mishayla from Hannah or Ethan, I can't do that. They make her more happy then I ever could, so why would I do something that would hurt her?
Xer0 \^/
Thats good to hear about your plans with your father, "sounds like a plan", he he 
Xer07 I am going to be completely honest here, and tell you what I think, because I already did in the past, but my opinion has changed about some things you said.
It seems to me, that you really DO want to move on, in your life, I mean get over her and get rid of all your demons that are tormenting you. You are going to leave the past behind you, arent you?
Now you are expecting to hear disapproving comments from me, but I am not going to do that.
For many reasons:
1. This decision you have made, defies all the "help" we were trying to offer, despite what we told you, despite all our posts (and mine of course), you stand for what you think is best for you, and that shows strong character, willpower, determination.
2. You are doing VERY noble thing, by trying to keep her safe and happy for as long as you can, this might be controversial, other people might disagree about whether she IS happy or not, but it doesnt matter.
3. Skidi and Twilight are saying that you "give up". That is not true. Life is a series of choices. You make a choice by deciding you want to move on with your life. As long as you have faith in yourself, nothing can beat you, nothing can harm you in any way.
4. I honestly believed that you would get rejected if you told her how you feel. But this is/was not neccessarily bad, because even if you DO get rejected, then you can finally move on.
All in all, I support you decision and...I have to admit that I have come to respect you very much through all these posts you made, showing me that I was wrong sometimes, and....you have something I was never able to do.
A "quality", if you prefer, that I was struggling for a long time to achieve. That is: emotional control. You can control your emotions in way I never could, I admire that. Even if it is wrong, sometimes its good, because people shouldnt always trust their emotions, sometimes you have to think logically, with just your brain, and not your heart.
Oh, got carried away again 
Anyway, I maybe wrong again, but thats all I can say about that.
So . . . you just give up? After years of planning, emotional and relationship development, yo just GIVE UP? Why, because two people coupled with her seem to make her happy? Ethan's a panzie and Hannah is a crutch & guard; she holds onto them so noone else can hert her, and you misconstrue this as her happiness. Maybe if you had a plan, if you did better in school, you would be an option too. But you are blinded to all of this because you have low self esteem. But we all know this speech won't change the same, because it is too mild. Let's change that. I warned you before about bringing your problems here, but it's too late now. Now, all you have left to do is
GET THE FUCK OFF YOUR ASS AND TELL HER WHAT YOU REALLY THINK, MAKE YOUR MOVE NOW BEFORE THE SWEDES DO!
IFear, please STFU 
Nobody likes your tone, and these posts are neither helpful, nor welcome. kthxbye
Twilight and Skidi: You two are really determined that you are correct, and that if he does what you are telling him, its all gonna be sweet as candy. You think you are so 100% right. What if you are wrong?
Choice, its all about choice. Its all about making the right choice. There is no giving up. Giving up is a choice, or at least thats what I like to believe.
But what bothers me is that you 2 cant admit that maybe, just maybe, there isnt anything you or Xer07 can do about his crush. You cant tell him what to do, its his own decision after all. You cant even know what is the right choice for him. Only he himslef knows whats right for him.
Now, I know what you will say, that he needs to tell her how he feels. Yes that is correct, he needs to do that because if he doesnt, he will regret it for the rest of his life. No Regrets = Pure Gold. I agree with that, but I believe that Xer07 will do it eventually, its just that it would be too late by then, right?
The thing is, he needs to understand it on his own, you cant make him do it.
1 very important question to Xer07: Why dont you do it? What do you have to lose at this point? She will leave for Sweden as you said in your post.
