So my girl and I started a multiplayer game lastnight and ended up saving it intending to continue it this morning.  Problem is that when we loaded the game whichever of us "joins" is always "lagging" and our game doesn't seem to resume.  I've tried loading the game and having her join and vice versa and whoever "joins" is always lagging in the network status menu.  The game loads up seemingly fine but none of the ships move, if we click on them they will play their audio cues... we really don't know whats up.  Anyone know how to fix this or something?"