thats what the forums are for, just post about the situations where you get in trouble and you'll get a few options from more expirienced players.
1'st advise play the tutorrial, then play a game then replay the tutorial
2'nd play a game as each race, deside what you like best then stick with that fdor awhile.
3'rd repairbays will help ALOT with defending the first few games, tradeports are a must as soom as you reach 3-4 colonies
but basicly it's a pretty straight forward game until you reach the top of the foodchain, the diffrence is some of it is a bit hidden, took me quite a few games to realise just how much mony i was loosing by not upgrading planets fast enough
and keep posting every time you run into a *wall* there are very few dumb questions and most can be resolved fairly easaly there's just something you diddentthink about.