Sodaiho posts #421
Ladies, I wouldn't get all excited about the status of women under Christianity. As you should know, women until recently were not allowed to own property, vote, and had a reduced legal status. Even today conservative Christian women and men opposed women's rights, the ERA and so forth. Moreover, its my understanding that Paul had issues with women. See Link.
SoDaiho,
Up until the time of Christ and the development of Christianity, women, overall, were treated as slaves, servants, and playthings of men....definitely treated as inferior to men. Among some peoples, the fathers gave their daughters away in marriage to whomever would pay the most. Husbands had absolute power over their wives, being able to punish her, sell her as a slave, or even put her to death.
In time, this state of degragation ended in the lands that were Christianized. God in fact, in creating the first woman, pronounced these words, "Let us make him a help like unto himself." Gen. 2:18. Christ restored woman's primitive dignity as a companion of man, "like unto himself", like, not inferior. This elevation was brought about in various ways, the first being that Christ was born of a woman, for the New Testament tells us that "God sent His Son, made of a woman."
After that as we have discussed, Christ elevated woman by resoring the unity, indissolubility and sancticty of marriage, making her queen of the home enshrining her natural gifts. There is no more noble vocation for a woman than to be a wife and companion, a mother and a homemaker.
SODAIHO POSTS: #430 [quote]However, women are not equal according to Paul. Women are subservient and should keep quiet.
Colossians 3
18: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19: Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. 20: Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21: Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.
Ephesians 5
21: Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24: As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands.
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1 Timothy 2
8: I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; 9: also that women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in seemly apparel, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly attire 10: but by good deeds, as befits women who profess religion. 11: Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. 12: I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent.
Hardly a world where a woman can grown into her own.[/quote]
These passages describe Christian marriages..so, it's not surprising that your summation is wrong...just the opposite of what is true as a matter of fact. Men and women are most free and happy, their marriage growing to its fullest, when they are following what Our Lord God Almighty wants for them in their marriage vocation. These passages are God's guidelines...The wise follow God's directives.
These passages do not mean that woman are subserviant to their husbands. Women are to be subject to their husbands only becasue of the need of authority and order in the family which calls for unity of command. Though subject to him, the wife is always his companion, not his servant or doormat. The next verse is "Let everyone of you in particular love his wife as himself." The power of the husband has well defined limits: he's the head of his wife, but for her welfare....He couldn't have a loftier Examplar than Christ who delived Himself up for His beloved Spouse, the Church.
This subjection doesn't deny or take away the liberty which fully belongs to the woman as a human person, a wife, a mother and a companion. Why? becasue it doesn't bid her to obey her husband's every request if not in harmony with reason or the dignity due her.
The body is the family, and the husband the head of the family, the wife the heart...if the heart is separated from the head, then it is to the detriment of the family and eventually will be its ruin.
Obviously, the world today under secular humanism today doesn't see marraige/woman/man relationships in the Christian sense. For the most part, in conversation, romances, on stage, movies, women, their virtue and honor, are not held in high regard, respected or defended.
So, here we see that, except in the light of Christianity, women are destined to lose her noble preprogatives, to abase herself, and forced to serve the less noble instincts of man.