@ lathorienBeing a husband and father as well, believe me when I say that I understand your point.
Let me point out a grievance of my own.
Being busy with (wife, children, businesses) I have precious little time to actually "play" games. Those that I do make the time for are few and far between. I've always been of a helping nature (in my family, business, etc.) so it stands to reason that I will also be that to the community of any game I'm playing.
My grievance stems from the following facts:
The "younger" generation you speak of have no problems editing facebook pages, burning/ripping music, posting youtube videos, using photoshop, texting (while driving or in school), torrenting anything & everything (some of these things I myself would need to read a tutorial for in order to do them). Why don't
they have problems doing any of the above? Because if a person wants to know how to do something badly enough, they'll learn.
The same thing is the case with
router configuration. There are countless websites, forums, blogs and guides strewn about the internet that will give you everything you need to know in order to get your router confingured in no time.
When it comes to software-specific router configuration then it stands to reason that one would visit the forums of said software to find the answers to their questions (not unlike children visiting the torrent forums to find help). This help (as you have pointed out yourself) has been made abundantly available by members of this community.
There is quite a large difference between complaining about not having the correct information in order to get something working, or complaining about have to do anything at all.I have (and continue to do so) made myself available to help this community in any way I can which has included forum posts, guides, time spent on my TS Server talking people through my instructions, and the
only time I ever expect someone to feel like an idiot is when they haven't even bothered to read all of the information (my guide "Networking and SINS" is easy to read/follow and has everything needed in order to get things working) provided to them.
Even the young among us don't have the right to refuse to help themselves (download guides and
read them) and then complain about not being helped!
/end rant

the Monk