1. What is with all the messages about waiting for a serial? I ordered back in December and have a Serial I got the same day. Do I have to wait for another serial number before I can download and use the retail release?!?!
It sounds like you ordered before the Beta 4 processing closed? If so, then yes, you already paid for it and the key is the same.
2. When can I expect my CD to come in the mail? I will be truely upset if I have to stare at retail copies for weeks while waiting for my pre-ordered copy.
It shipped today with USPS I believe, so give it a few days. (unless you're overseas, which will be longer)
3. I paid $44.95 back in December for what is listed on my Receipt as "CD Pre-Order", now I see the digital download only is $44.95. Someone please tell me that I am still getting my packaged CD and book and such. If not I will be even more upset if I have fallen for some bait and switch crap!
If it says CD, you should be getting a collector's edition box with all the goodies. I'm pretty sure you can email sales@stardock.com and have it confirmed, though.